Sandra,
I am not sure that you are being fair to white women with that statement " they don't date for security and love, but for sex".
This is a general statement about a whole race of women.
Are you saying that they are not able to love?.
that the only thing they want in a relationship is sex?
LOL
Every one is different, we were born with different personality, temperament.
We need to be careful about general statement like that. It sounds negative.
Again, I will repeat my previous statement, maybe our haitian men are treating us that way, because we accept it. As a matter of fact, I know that some women, sometimes, encourage such stupid behaviors at the beginning of the relationship (because we want to please them so much ), then we complain later.
These men don't change.
What you see/get at the beginning of the relationship is what you will get throughout the relationship