Hi Yolande,
Thanks.
We do have more serious problems than the color of their skin, Right?
LOL.
I will venture to say that some of us sometimes prefer another race, because the truth is, our own kind SOMETIMES does no treat us the way we should be treated.
They often take us for granted, they are disrespectful at times by their behavior, they don't know the meaning of compromise, but God forbid, they find a foreigner mate, (especially if she is white), they often treat her like she is gold.
All of a sudden they know how to cook and clean, they know what it is like to take their mate out on a date, They remember bithdays, and valentine day.
They remember how to hold hands, how to be affectionate.
They remember that their mate is not their punching bag.
I do not want to put all the blame on them, because, WE, HAITIAN WOMEN, WE ACCEPT A LOT OF "CRAP" FROM OUR MEN. WE OFTEN DO THAT "RESIGNE" NONSENSE, WE OFTEN HEAR FROM OUR OLDER HAITIAN FAMILY MEMBERS.
I believe that some of us do not think, that we deserve and can do better.
WHAT WE FAIL TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT AS LONG AS WE KEEP THAT SORRY EXCUSE OF A MAN AROUND, THEY WILL NOT BE ROOM FOR SOMEONE BETTER TO COME ALONG.
Many will disagree with me, I know, but the truth does hurt, and if we do not admit that there is a problem, we will never find the solution.
when we are being treated less than the loving, caring and loyal women that we are, we need to put our feet down and say "HELL NO",TREAT ME LIKE I DESERVE OR HIT THE DOOR".
LET'S START WITH OUR BABY BOYS AND GIRLS.
Keep in touch