there is one things you need to know, you can take him away from his wife, not from his kids, and you will still need to deal with his wife cuz they have kids togehter wherether you like it or not he will go back to his wife for more sex, one trick you don't know about men. he will never ever, tell you that his still in love with his wife, cuz he wants to used you for sex or somethingelse.
you need to grow up my dear.