My apology Lavie for saying that you initiated this forum…I read you so many times that I came to that conclusion without going through the first posting.
Lavie…You can bring the Bible anytime you are out of arguments and you will make some sense…In my book, it is called “intellectual masturbation” which is the practice of arguing and writing on subjects just for the sake of writing and not expecting any agreement of any sort.
I mentioned “Rie” as crazy based on her posting just to make it a point that you are still sane and you still care about making a point in this forum.
I was not into playing any game…Hope you can stay sane in all this and not trying to sell us the bible as the answer to Haitian men cheating.
Duh!(http://www.think-ink.net/doh/meaning.htm)
Remember the question that we were trying to answer: Why Do Married Haitian Men Cheat?
It was not Why men cheat, why Jamaican or black American or white American or European men cheat.
It sounded as if Haitian men are the worst at cheating…Probably not. We all have Spanish friend or neighbor?
Now, let’s assume for the sake of the argument that Haitian men are really worst at cheating.
You can read between the lines Lavie and all I was trying to say is if we are addressing cheating as an issue which is tied to sex and mostly sex (not bible), let’s look at it on the sex aspect of it. In 2006, Haitian women have to make the switch of making sex the number one priority in the relationship and relegate the food as 2nd or 3rd. You barely hear Haitian women complaining about the husbands eating out even after getting the home cooking, you heard complaints about haitian men sexual behaviors outside the marriage.
This is 2006, restaurants are everywhere, let’s fulfill the sex part and switch this problem on the food side. How many times in our “Haitian foyer” have you heard the woman shouting: “I cook the food, I clean the house, I work as you do…What else this man wants from me?” It sounds like Haitian women got a better kick at feeding Haitian men than keeping them happy sexually …I witnessed (You probably saw that also Lavie or displayed it yourself) the happy face showed by Haitain women (I should say the orgasmic face) when the food is on the table and the husbands are eating….Tell your sisters to make the switch, attack the problem at its roots and let worry about a different issue such as “lack of food in the Haitian foyer” in the next 5 years
Let’s shoot for more climax in the bed (NOT AROUND THE KITCHEN TABLE when rice and beans and Grillot are being served)
“Walk Better Lavie”…oops, I meant “Walk Real Lavie”