Hi Judith,
Boy this is a sad and serious thing.
Judith what happened with your husbands first marriage?
Do you know anything about it did he cheat on her?
Does he have other kids other than this one?
I had to go to my other half on this one. My husband say's that he will probably cheat on you again.
This is what this forum is about,
They just can't help themselves, they cheat with no thought about it. For your husband to actuaaly bring a child into this world this wasn't a one night stand.
This girl got comfortable with your husband and eventually had uninhibited sex. What was your husband thinking, hasn't he learned from the past.
judith I'am afraid that you will get hurt again.
He is a cheater and the worst king. So you love him, Listen to me carefully.
God will bring you love again, and again and again.
Yes you will love again, God does not want you to suffer.
You will not be able to have a quality life with him because you will never trust him like you did before.
You say that you love him does he love you ?
Would he love you if you brought a child by someone else into your marriage, I don't think so. God loves you and wouldn't want you to stay in an unhealthy relationship.
Your husband now has involvement with this child and the mother forever.
She will appear again into your husband's life because of the child.
How long have you been married to him and how old are you this is very important.
Still more to sort out, email me at marjpierr@yahoo.com