i feel what you are saying / iam in the same thing .the only different thing is my haitian husband that i am still marry to now .i believe he has went back to haita and has got married to his 15month baby motherlast year. but i have no way to find out if he is married to her.and to top it off her told me that his has 16kids in the usa .he has only been here in the usa since 1992.but me &him dont have no kids. (someone please help me )