I agree with you, i believe ever women and men should date whoever they want. I notice that, when anyone date outside they race, it means that they self hate or hate they own race especially in the black community.
my mother always told me that you can marry anyone you want as long he is a good christian man, he treats you like a jewel and you bring him home. I am not entitle to the black race or to haitian men except to god.
experience.
i met 3 haitian men, and all 3 were crazy, possessive and we didn't even go out at all. I met a nigerian, OMG, the worst.
he had no manners at all, his approach was disgusting and i am still disturb by it. I know that i will be meeting alot of frogs along the way, so i have open myself up
I love my traditions and culture and i those who are different to mine, i am a cutural diverse person, i want my partner to be the same.
we all human, the only reason we have race battles is because of skin color and hair textures.
if there was a superior race and inferior race then we wouldn't able to reproduce with people who have different features, skin color or hair texture.
i tell any black female or man, if love comes your way because you didn't expect to be that image you had or have in mind, take it.
usually people who says don't marry outside your race,( black and white) are people who have hate themselves.
they want you to stay in place and never move on.
to me it;s like applying to college, your junior high school year, you have made ur mind up in one college and only apply to that college.
what are the odds you won't be accepted.
the odds are against you, you should have many choices in case the 1 st one don't come through.
you may have not like the first college if you actually got accepted.
I always tell my sister what her 1st choice should not be a haitian man or a black man. that should not be her only choices either because i know who she hangs out with.