o yes ppl can put an end to this mess. We are the creators of our problems its all in the mind. i dont commend you on that statement not being able to trust you have to be able to have self trust if you believe in yourself then there is no reason not to believe in him and if you love him you have to trust him praise him do what ever it takes to hold a man down. men are out there doing dirty because you allow it. trust me on that you are either bitching and naggiging all the time you worry about yourself you may be a needy person, insecure or just downright lazy. you have to be able to understand your man and the reason why hes unfaithful.
of course there are many of us beautiful woman i guy cant resist but not all of them are like that guys need attention, they need to be loved like a baby, you have to give it to them change your sex patterns at home maybe sweet talk them to sleep prepare and surprise them its a woman who allows her man to stray remember when you first met?
ask yourself what changed?
want he loving you so much he was in love and he still is you have to find away to maintain that same love you first found with him. its what we create inside our minds to make this whole picture true you are doing this to yourself believe it. A man would not want to cheat if you took care of your self worth, mind, and spirit.
he doesnt have to lo0k else where if you'd just understand him.