DEAR MARA, I AGREE WITH YOU MUCH, BUT FOR THE MOST PART FROM MY OBSERVATIONS HAITIAN MEN ARE A TRIP. THEY HAVE THIS MACHO/MALE THING GOING ON AND ALSO A CARRIBEAN MENTALITY - THEY COME FIRST AND HAVE THEIR WOMEN WAITING ON THEM HAND AND FOOT. I HAVE BEEN TO PARTIES AND WATCHED THE WOMAN FUSS OVER THEM AND TREAT THEM LIKE KINGS WHILE THEY ARE LOOKING AT OTHER WOMEN IN AN INAPPROPRIATE WAY. NO RESPECT - IT'S AS IF THEY BELIEVE IN THEIR HEART OF HEARTS THAT HAVING OTHER WOMEN ON THE SIDE IS A NORMAL PAST TIME. MANY HAITIAN MEN FEEL THAT THEY'RE NOT A REAL MAN IF THEY DON'T HAVE A SIDE KICK.