Actually i'd love to say that we are all human beings, made of flesh and bones.
As human beings most of us tend not to have no control on ourselves.
We mostly tend to go on our instincts then on our minds.This having said, i'm not taking anuybody's sides but the cheating mostly comes from both sides.
I know some men cheaters will go on and say that the wives don't take good care of them, they don't get affection from them but i've always said that it is best to sit your spouse and talk to him or her about the relationship.Let him or her know that some things don't seem that pleasant anymore.
Just maybe they would have come around and things could have changed, as a result strengthening the bond these people share and avoiding the cheatin that i consider so low anyways.For a relationship to work, we must have trust, respect.
How can one claims he or she loves the other when their behavior towards that special someone is all about lacking respect?
We all need to take love as a serious matter people.
It all starts just right off the ground.
We need a good foundation, a good understanding of what love really means, of what love can really do and take it from there.